Self validating emotions
People who grow up in invalidating environments are often led to believe that their emotions and thoughts aren’t valid, and they discern that their emotions aren’t correct.
As part of BPD treatment through Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), people with the psychiatric disorder are taught skills to help them learn both to feel validated and to validate others.
Everything depended on the validation, on the turning up of a card.
I will charge you five credits for this validation, since I am rendering a service.
It’s not that you can’t handle the task at hand; in fact, you know you have all the resources and necessary information at your disposal.
Be assured that I do not want to blame parents for causing the problem. However parents can change their attitudes and improve their communication skills which will help their adult child.It’s being non-judgmental and accepting of their thoughts and emotions.During DBT therapy, people with Borderline Personality Disorder are taught the acronym CLEAR to learn the process of validating.Validation is mentioned in Marsha Linehan’s Skills Training Manual for Treating Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).
To understand validation we need to understand the biosocial theory of BPD.This section encompasses a variety of mostly verbal techniques. It's a really important aspect in relationships, whether personal, work, or college.